A MUST READ FOR MEN: Cure for Premature Ejaculation

The most common remedy for premature ejaculation is for the husband to avoid any unnecessary action on the glans penis immediately after entrance. This of course takes great self-discipline, because that high point of excitement his instincts motivate him to a deep thrusting action. This instinctively varmint is nature’s method of depositing the male sperm deep into the vagina where the possibility fertilizing the female egg is greatest. Actually that seemingly universal instinct is not the best method educing female satisfaction, for recent studies seem to indicate that it actually works against it. 


That woman tends to respond more to very gentle movements than to deep thrusting. Some women, for example find that their tension buildup drops off after their husband’s thrusting action starts, but again begins to build when he slows down and moves from side to side. In fact, if she develops her Pelvic muscles, she can actually bring herself to orgasm by contracting these muscles several times on a motionless penis.

Therefore, if the husband will maintain a motionless position for about two minutes immediately after entrance, he will gain a degree of control that will retard his ejaculation. And if the wife will pinch his penis with her P.C. muscles during this motionless period, her emotional tension will build toward climax while he is dormant. Then, when her husband gains control of his ejaculation, they can begin the thrust that will bring them both to climax.

It is also helpful if the husband avoids rough, forceful penetration and remembers that the first two inches inside the vagina constitute his wife’s primary sensitive area. Once the penis goes beyond that point, it can become uncomfortable to the wife rather than stimulating. Men have a tendency to do the deep thrusting and is exciting to their wives because it is to them—but that is not generally true unless at the same time they use other more gentle motions that stimulate the wife’s clitoral area.
Concentration on motion closer to the opening of the vagina, then, has two advantages over deep penetration: it is more exciting to the wife and less exciting to the husband, further helping him to control his ejaculation while she builds toward orgasm.

The concentration it takes to learn this technique—providing the husband with the degree of control while at the same time building the wife’s tension through muscular vaginal pinching of motionless penis—pays big dividends in mutual pleasure. Most men fail to remain motionless for two minutes at that point of excitement. Once he is inside the vagina, a man’s instincts cry out for motion, ones drive must be resisted until he gains self-mastery. After the first motionless period, the husband can experiment as to how long subsequent pauses are needed to control ejaculation, but this technique can help him learn to resist his ejaculation almost indefinitely. During some tests men have claimed such mastery for over two hours, though this would almost never be necessary to please his wife.

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